Happiest Person In America: What's Sex Got To Do With It?

Who is the happiest person in America? USAVirginia Beach, in case you didn't know. If
Today featured Happiest Person in a cover storysomebody even happier than Happiest Person
in its USA Weekend magazine. Bad news: it's notlives in San Francisco or Vermont, the USA
you. Nor is it me.Just how did they find HappiestToday research team does not want to
Person and determine that he is indeed theknow.Why confine their search to one town?
happiest person in America? The USA TodayCould geography be the secret to happiness that
research team appears to have used an elegantlySeligman failed to mention? True, research does
simple three-step process.First, they identified "theshow that people living in free societies tend to be
world's leading authority on happiness", Martinhappier than others, but there is no evidence that
Seligman ... which must have come as a wee bitwhere you live within the free world makes a
of a surprise to several of his equally well-knowndifference.Sex. Women are prone to higher
and equally well-respected peers. How they pickedemotional highs and lower emotional lows,
Seligman remains more of a mystery than how awhereas men are prone to more constant
land-locked nation of mountains and yodelingemotions. So Happiest Person must be a man,
became home to the holy grail of yachting, butconcludes USA Today. While the science does hit
we are working feverishly to crack thethe bull's eye, the conclusion misses the barn wall.
code.Next, they asked Seligman to name sixI suppose they'll be telling us that Seattle is the
principles of happiness. Seligman listed couplesunniest spot in America because the weather
strengths, a win-win approach, savoring success,fluctuates less than in The Sunshine State.Family.
playing to one's strengths, opening doors toHappiest Person is married, has children, and is
opportunity and finding meaning in life.Finally, theyhealthy. People with intimate relationships do tend
applied Seligman's principles to determine who bestto be happier, and marriage is a fairly good
matches them. Naawww, just kidding. That wouldindicator (especially for men). And health is
make way too much sense. Instead, USA Todayimportant. These may not be among Seligman's
created a make-believe process of its own thatsix principles, but let's not argue against good
stands out from Seligman's list like the Jolly Greenhealth.Money. Happiest person has a "good,
Giant at a dwarf convention. Here is the USAdependable job" as a stockbroker, a 2,300 square
Today process.Geography. It seems that Happiestfoot house (with an eat-in kitchen and a deck!).
Person must live in the best place to live, which is