Work on Your Weaknesses For Smooth Sailing

I was outside yesterday afternoon, enjoying lunchocean with big toys, you'd better be well-trained
with friends. We were at one of the bestor you could crash and get hurt.
oceanfront dining locations along the whole GrandSo, what does this mean to me or you? It means
Strand (as our beach is called). From our diningthat if we want smooth sailing in our business or
vantage point, we could not only see the waveseven our personal lives, we need some training
rolling in to the wide sandy beach, but there wereand some practice. So, first, let's figure out what
a variety of water sports going on out there.we're already really good at, and work from
First, there were the jet skis. Then I saw folksthere. I know what my strengths are. And I'm
parasailing, wind-surfing, and just plain ol' surfing onpainfully aware of my weaknesses. How about
boards of all different sizes. It was a colorfulyou? If you need help with assessing these, enlist
display of watercraft and sails against the azurethe help of a trusted friend or co-worker. It's
blue of the Atlantic Ocean. The weather wasusually not a good idea to involve your spouse or
even perfect. Not too hot, and not much humidity."significant other" because it might get a little
This spring has been awesome, and we keeptense; it's tough to take criticism from those the
waiting for the hammer to drop and bothvery closest to us. Maybe if you've been married
temperature and humidity will rise to unbearableor together a REALLY long time and have most
levels almost overnight. But yesterday, it was justof the bugs worked out of your relationship.
right.Now, when you have the strengths and
Then, the longer I watched, I began to see someweaknesses all figured out and written down,
disturbing things. You see, riding jet skis into thethink about how you might go about shoring up
ocean surf is not the same as launching one into athese areas. I'll give you an example from my life.
calm lake or the Intracoastal Waterway. I saw aI'm a terrible organizer. I work at it constantly
few bodies flying off the jet skis and a lifeguardbecause left to my own devices, I'd drown in piles
jumping into the surf for assistance, while anotherof things and I'd never find anything. I know I will
onlooker swam out to the jet ski itself which wasprobably always need help.
bobbing precariously on the waves. People wereWhen I first went into business,I found I was
literally and figuratively, "over their heads." Abuying the same products twice, and one time I
parasailer came down for a landing and hit theactually went into a mega bookstore here and
sand a little too hard. Sea shells aren't the bestbought the same book twice in the same week. I
ground cover for falling, and I saw a couplefinally purchased software that helps me keep
bloodied knees from that crash. Of course, theretrack of passcodes, affiliate links, auto-responder
were the typical wipe-outs from inexperiencedemails, info products and eBooks I've purchased,
surfers, and wind-surfers. Maybe this wasn't soand the list goes on...
relaxing after all.Make plans right away to fill in the gaps where
Then, as my mind tends to do, I began toyou know you need help. And I hope to see you
consider the lesson I could take away from allall enjoying smooth sailing.
this. I think I have it: If you're going to play in the